TELL HIM WHAT HE HATES TO HEAR 
Anyone who cannot look at you in the eye and tell you your mistakes does not deserve to be in your life. Also, to whomever you aren’t bold enough to tell the truth, you become a curse

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Our friends and those around us are supposed to be a mirror through which we see ourselves, for it is not always possible for a man to know his own errors.

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But some of us are so shy and timid we can’t even tell somebody that there’s a black stain on his teeth.

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Some of us have boy/girlfriends that are lazy especially in their studies or rude to parents or dirty or very ungodly but we never tell them point blank. We’re so conscious of the what we stand to gain from the relationship that we don’t want to take any risk.

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Ladies, hear this, any guy who insists on going out with you even after you have told him that you have someone in your life does not deserve you. He sees you as a mere shop and wants to pick his own piece of ware. Also, he’s someone whose desires has blinded to the truth. He doesn’t deserve you.

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You have a friend that has many girlfriends or goes out with married men or belongs to a cult or drinks and smokes or is involved in fraud (Yahoo Yahoo) but you have never for once warned him, heaven sees you as same as him/her

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“When I say to a wicked person, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn them or speak out to dissuade them from their evil ways in order to save their life, that wicked person will die for their sin, and I will hold you accountable for their blood.” (Ezekiel 3:18)

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You’ll never get away with it if you fail to tell a friend or family about Christ. Selah!

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Some of our close friends and relatives get into serious trouble and ruin because we simply choose to close our eyes to their mistakes. “A flattering mouth works ruin.” (Proverbs 26:23)

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I think one of the greatest problems of the world is that there are too many people who know the truth but fail to say it; friends who never tell the truth; wives and husbands who never say things the way they are to each other; pastors who pamper their members and parents who over pamper their children.

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“Whoever rebukes a person will in the end gain favor rather than one who has a flattering tongue.” (Proverbs 28:23)

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A man who has embezzled millions of naira of public funds and have failed to fulfil his promises would visit a place and the whole place would be filled with people dancing and cheering shamelessly, selling their destiny and future of their children for peanuts. So annoying!

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The scriptures says “in the multitude of counsel, there is safety.” Although the truth is always bitter, the only people that will push you to fulfillment are those who tell you the truth that you hate to hear. Same applies to you, your best contribution to any life is to tell it the truth.

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Do yourself a favour, don’t react negatively anytime you’re corrected because you need such blunt people to succeed in life.

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Be blunt, tell that fellow the truth that he/she hates to hear. Always do that!

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Williams
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Prince
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Thanks bro

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