Earlier in the day we talked about the laws of relationship Part 1 now let’s proceed to Part 2 .
2. THE LAW OF ACCESS
Every relationship has rules both to enter and remain: It’s not everybody that comes our way that should have access to our life, for everyone that enters your life, have entered your future.
Every relationship has either positive or negative effect on our lives, if the effect is negative one, walk out even though with tears.
People must qualify to enter your life and until you realize whom you are, you will allow everybody to enter. Proverbs 13:20, You will suffer both the consequences of and rewards of those who are closest to you, Destruction means death of purpose.
The moment we move towards the direction of a wrong relationship, it is the moment that our purposes begin to fade away, It is vital you qualify every person that comes your way.
TYPES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE
Those from your past who continually try to drag you into your past
Those who are willing to accept you in the state where they met you and have some role to play in helping you to fulfill your present assignment
Ø Those who are undeniably tied to helping you enter your future
Ø They have been where you want to go
Ø They are the only ones who can take you to a better future
3. LAW OF TRUST
The mark of a healthy relationship is security which is as a result of trust, If you are in a relationship where you constantly have to look over your shoulder, get out, you are in a wrong relationship.
TRUST IS THE BEDROCK OF ANY MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP
Good relationship may begin because of common purpose, mutual support and so on, but they endure because of commitment and trust. A relationship is only as strong as the strength of trust that exists between two parties. If there is no trust in a relationship, things will fall apart.
When we trust God, we open ourselves to his blessings and when we trust each other at all times, we keep the channels of blessings. No matter the whispering and gossip, make up your mind to trust your partner because not everybody wants you to be happy.
A relationship without trust is like a dead man waiting to be buried, Where there is no trust, there will be no unity and the devil knows this, that’s why he fights trust in marriage and sows different thoughts and pictures in people’s mind to bring doubt and mistrust.
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