There are many dangers attached to being pregnant before your wedding day. Here are a few of them:
i) DECEIT: A young man said to me that whenever a girl proves stubborn, he goes to her parents telling them he wanted to marry their daughter. With that in mind, the lady opens her legs and once he sleeps with her a number of times, he leaves her and moves to the next girl.
ii) REJECTION: There are occasions where the guy suspects that the lady is cheating on him and when the lady becomes pregnant eventually, the guy refuses to claim responsibility and the lady becomes stranded. Even if they drag it to the point of DNA test, the trust in that relationship would be no more hence, there’s a big problem
iii) THE UNEXPECTED: A lady became pregnant as her wedding day approached. She must have thought of getting wedded before the pregnancy became obvious but the unexpected happened as her father was involved in a serious fire accident. The wedding was therefore postponed indefinitely.
Things like that have happened to many that prevented them from having a wedding. In the end, they move to the man’s house without being married to him.
iv) LACK OF ACCEPTANCE: There have been occasions where a lady who was pregnant was not accepted by the parents of the man who got her pregnant. She becomes stranded. It is better imagined because enduring such trauma when a lady is pregnant is criminal. Pregnant women shouldn’t be made to go through such trauma
There is no need running after something that will come looking for you. Take your time!
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